... cause fear:

What about my future?
What about the children?
How to handle my feelings, anxiety, aggressiveness?

... cause legal problems and need solutions:

What about a timeframe to respect within proceedings?
In case of divorce - how will common fortune be devided and who will care for the children?
Are there claims for alimony or do I have to pay them?
Who has the right to remain in common houses or appartments?